6 Things To Do After A Bad Break Up

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Have you just broken up with the supposed love of your life? Does it feel like your heart is about to come out of your chest?

What went wrong? You might ask. It is unbelievable. You cannot imagine that after dating for a few years, a lover comes to you tells you the overused slogan “it’s not you, it’s me, but we can still be friends”.

While we insist that you always realize that bad relationships should not be the end of you, it can be hard to leave someone you once deeply cared for.

Now, instead of crying for days, doing something drastic and coming home with a felony record, you can forget all about those tiring and time-wasting things and choose to do something else.

  1. Watch A  Comedy Series

Comedy is a known remedy for anything including breakups. This isn’t the time to binge-watch 12 reasons why or Riverdale. This is the time to watch The Big Bang Theory, Modern Family, Blackish or the world’s personal favorite Friends.

Do some episodes of Jenifa Series, Skinny Girl in Transit. The plan is for you to get lost in the antics of your favorite actors. So wear your comfiest clothes, get a bowl of popcorn, snuggle with your tab, laptop or phone and get ready to laugh away your sorrows.

2.     Get A New Hobby

Getting a new hobby doesn’t entail baking or knitting, those are old people hobbies.

Try something like mixed martial arts, learn a new language, take a dancing class, try taking a cooking class or join the gym. Nothing empties your mind and numbs your heart like the exhilaration you get from learning something new. 

The above will help you channel your energy. If you don’t like the above, learn an instrument. Whatever makes you expressive? Do it.

3. Hit The Clubs

Remember the saying “out with the old, in with new”? Well out with the slimy old boyfriend and in with the new hot boy that is a friend. Don’t jump into a new relationship, you don’t need a rebound. Go out with your friends, have some drinks, dance a lot and make new friends.

Never go to the club alone as that is a recipe for disaster.

Dance like you have no care in the world because you really don’t have a care. Drink but don’t get sloppy drunk.

4. Listen to New Music

If you and your ex loved the same type of music or the same artists, it is advisable to branch out of your comfort zone.

Listen to a new genre of music or music in a new language.

An advisable language is South Korean, they have the finest boys and the most sensible lyrics. You can also listen to the sonorous voice of Khalid. His songs will make you forget about everything.

 5. Take Baths

Baths are meditating, cleansing and are for pampering. Which makes them perfect for breakups. When was the last time you really filled up your tub and had a good soak with a glass (bottle) of wine?

Showers are not for the recently dumped. Take your time relaxing in your bath with a book and music in the background. Let the water soothe your mood and heart.

6. Prepare To Date Again

 Remember his loss is another person’s gain, so forget about him, think about yourself and don’t forget there is someone else out there made just for you.

Also note, you can grief for a reasonable time.

And after a while, it is okay to date again.

There are other more honorable finer fishes in the sea. Don’t miss out on them because of a teeny tiny break-up.

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