10 Things Fathers Do Lovingly For Their Children

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1. They love their children’s mother

Love your wife without reservation – you can’t do much more for your kids than that. If you are divorced, treat your children’s mother with respect, even if it is not reciprocated. Never return disgrace with disgrace. Love your wife without reservation.

2. Love them unconditionally

Make sure that your children know you love them no matter what. Don’t confuse this with permissiveness. Unconditional love does nothing to encourage the wrong kind of behavior. In fact, kids who are secure in their father’s love tend to act out less, not more.

3. Grow up

We’re talking about us here, not the kids. Children don’t want another buddy; they want a dad. They want someone who thinks things through, makes tough decisions, and engages life with responsibility. Someone they can count on.

4. Be there

“Quality time” is all well and good, but it has nothing on quantity time. Make the time. Everyone has the same 24 hours available. Make yours count.

5. Provide

As best you can. Material provision can be tough when jobs are lost and tough times hit. However, you can always provide a stable home with love and affection.

6. Discipline

Children appreciate an even hand, balance accountability, and love-drenched discipline. It’s called consistency and, without clearly defined boundaries, it is very difficult to grow up.

7. Value education

Don’t just read to them; read with them. Don’t just fuss about grades; get involved with their homework. Don’t just talk about learning; be a hands-on advocate and be a presence at their school.

8. Raise them to leave

The simple goal of being a family and parenting our children doesn’t look any more complicated than this: Raise them up well-equipped to leave home and to establish faithful lives.

9. Teach them to take responsibility

Kids who learn how to duck responsibility and avoid cost will – sooner or later – fall flat on their faces. Loving fathers mame sure their children know how to own up, clean up and move forward.

10. Teach them to love this life

The best predictor of happiness in children is happiness in their parents. If we learn how to love this life and then give that blessing to our kids, they will be well prepared for satisfaction.

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